Paying Attention: What is in Your Cup?
In a wisdom tale, Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh tells us the bump in the road doesn’t create what spills out of the cup we are carrying. Instead it reveals what is already inside. The question is not about who bumps us rather, “What am I carrying in my cup?”

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10:30 AM - Worship Service
12:00 PM - Next Soul Matters Deep Dive on January 24
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
7:00 PM - Parent Drop-In on Zoom
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3:00 PM - Tea Time on Zoom
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10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
7:00 PM - Social Justice Committee Meeting on Zoom
10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
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9:00 AM - UU Freethinking Mystics on Zoom
10:30 AM - Worship Service
11:30 AM - Kids' Chapel on Zoom
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
12
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9:00 AM - Staff Meeting on Zoom
10:00 AM - Tea Time on Zoom
1:00 PM - Leading Ladies Covenant Group on Zoom
13
8:00 PM - Dream Vespers
10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
10:30 AM - Worship Service
11:30 AM - Kids' Chapel on Zoom
12:00 PM - Safe Parking Overview and Discussion
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
6:30 PM - Chalice Circle - Private Group
9:00 AM - Staff Meeting on Zoom
3:00 PM - Tea Time on Zoom
7:00 PM - Board of Trustees Meetings on Zoom
8:00 PM - Dream Vespers
10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
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8:00 PM - Dream Vespers
10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
7:00 PM - Infinite CUUPS Committee Meeting
7:00 PM - Social Justice Committee Meeting on Zoom
5
10:30 AM - Rehearsal on Zoom for Worship Service
27
Dec
Take a deep dive into our Soul Matters theme of the month. Using a different format than our Chalice Circles, experience a new theme each month in community with others. The deep dives support and reinforce Chalice Circle participation, and are open to all adult members and friends, whether or not you participate as a Chalice Circle member. No prior reading or preparation is required.
29
Dec
Parent Drop-In
Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m.
Parenting and caring for children always presents challenges and it is even more complex as we live through these days of the pandemic. Come, take a break, and connect with other parents (or anyone raising/living with a child) from TUUC. Share strategies for coping, provide support to one another, and sometimes, just have a good laugh. This is an informal group with no agenda other than to be here for each other. The room is open from 7:00 until 8:00. Busy lives mean you can’t always be there right at the start and that is okay. Pop in late if that is what works for you.
Join us at: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88074707279?pwd=US9tWlF1cnp5d0FzcFY0Y08rNmQxZz09
31
Dec
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
03
Jan
Join Nancy Slocum, Director of Religious Exploration for Children and Youth for a “Kids' Chapel” via Zoom on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. This program is geared for elementary school-aged children and will provide a little time to connect and share with each other. We will still have a Time for All Ages during our online worship service which starts at 10:30 a.m., and encourage children to participate in the worship service through that point.
If you are a parent of a child or children in our Religious Exploration program and have not received the login information, please email Nancy at dir.re@tahomauu.com and she will send you the info.
05
Jan
Tea Time on Zoom
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84959104932?pwd=RzB5TlVuMUh1ak0xM0o1K25vajlGQT09
Meeting ID: 849 5910 4932
Password: 1000
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. join Joe Rettenmaier for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
05
Jan
Parent Drop-In
Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m.
Parenting and caring for children always presents challenges and it is even more complex as we live through these days of the pandemic. Come, take a break, and connect with other parents (or anyone raising/living with a child) from TUUC. Share strategies for coping, provide support to one another, and sometimes, just have a good laugh. This is an informal group with no agenda other than to be here for each other. The room is open from 7:00 until 8:00. Busy lives mean you can’t always be there right at the start and that is okay. Pop in late if that is what works for you.
Join us at: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88074707279?pwd=US9tWlF1cnp5d0FzcFY0Y08rNmQxZz09
07
Jan
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
08
Jan
01/08/2021
7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
This Open Mic Night is postponed, and will be rescheduled soon. Watch for updates in ENews and here on calendar event page.
TUUC Open Mic Night
January 8, 2021, 7:00 - 8:00 p.m.
Join us for an exciting evening of entertainment provided by YOU! The event will be a great chance to discover all the talent within our congregation. This event is open to All Ages.
All performers are welcome: music, story or joke telling, ventriloquism, drama, etc.. The sky is the limit! Just be sure your offering is appropriate for an all-ages audience and that it runs no longer than 5 minutes.
To register to share your talent, email Nancy Slocum at dir.re@tahomauu.com.
And, of course, we need audience members, too!
01/08/2021
8:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Meditative Vespers
Friday, January 8, 2021, 8:00 p.m.
Are you yearning for spiritual connection in light of Wednesday's attempted coup of our beloved nation? Join our Sabbatical Minister, Joe Rettenmaier, for a soothing, spiritual vespers. This casual, family-friendly service welcomes you as you are -- with gentle guided meditations, peaceful music, safe reflective space, poetry, prose, and more in one healing community Zoomscape. All ages are welcome.
Zoom Meeting Room:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81190131342
Meeting ID: 811 9013 1342
10
Jan
UU Freethinking Mystics on Zoom
Second Sundays
9:00—10:15 a.m.
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82066652490?pwd=aU9BTzMzRHc3Rk0weGtBUHZQTjNNUT09
Meeting ID: 820 6665 2490
Passcode: 253
We are members and friends of Unitarian Universalism walking the path of spiritual experience and growth as it unfolds in our lives. We come to this safe, caring, authentic, compassionate group for inspiration, to study, and to explore our direct experience of the fullness and mystery of life.
The group is facilitated by Doug Taylor.
This year the group is using the book, Radical Compassion: Learning to Love Yourself and Your World with the Practice of RAIN by Tara Brach.
In this heartfelt and deeply practical book, she offers an antidote: an easy-to-learn four-step meditation that quickly loosens the grip of difficult emotions and limiting beliefs. Each step in the meditation practice (Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture) is brought to life by memorable stories shared by Tara and her students as they deal with feelings of overwhelm, loss, and self-aversion, with painful relationships, and past trauma--and as they discover step-by-step the sources of love, forgiveness, compassion, and deep wisdom alive within all of us.
10
Jan
Join Nancy Slocum, Director of Religious Exploration for Children and Youth for a “Kids' Chapel” via Zoom on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. This program is geared for elementary school-aged children and will provide a little time to connect and share with each other. We will still have a Time for All Ages during our online worship service which starts at 10:30 a.m., and encourage children to participate in the worship service through that point.
If you are a parent of a child or children in our Religious Exploration program and have not received the login information, please email Nancy at dir.re@tahomauu.com and she will send you the info.
12
Jan
Tea Time on Zoom
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84959104932?pwd=RzB5TlVuMUh1ak0xM0o1K25vajlGQT09
Meeting ID: 849 5910 4932
Password: 1000
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. join Joe Rettenmaier for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
14
Jan
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
15
Jan
01/15/2021
8:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Are you yearning for spiritual connection in light of all the events in the current life of our beloved nation? Join our Sabbatical Minister, Joe Rettenmaier, for a soothing, spiritual vespers. This casual, family-friendly service welcomes you as you are — with gentle guided meditations, peaceful music, safe reflective space, poetry, prose, and more in one healing community Zoomscape. All ages are welcome.
Dream Vespers
8:00 p.m. Pacific
Fridays:
January 15, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 22, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 29, 2021 8:00 p.m.
Join Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84187997297?pwd=VzkwQ2hpclJOUVBrd2s0REErdWhmUT09
Meeting ID: 841 8799 7297
Passcode: 253
This gathering will be held via Zoom meeting, and participants will be able to see each other. To keep focus on our vespers reflections, we will not be using written chat during this gathering.
17
Jan
Join Nancy Slocum, Director of Religious Exploration for Children and Youth for a “Kids' Chapel” via Zoom on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. This program is geared for elementary school-aged children and will provide a little time to connect and share with each other. We will still have a Time for All Ages during our online worship service which starts at 10:30 a.m., and encourage children to participate in the worship service through that point.
If you are a parent of a child or children in our Religious Exploration program and have not received the login information, please email Nancy at dir.re@tahomauu.com and she will send you the info.
17
Jan
Safe Parking Overview and Discussion
Sunday, January 17, 2021
12:00 noon
Join an overview of and discussion about the Tacoma/Pierce County Safe Parking Network Pilot Program on Sunday, January 17 at 12:00 noon. What is Safe Parking? How might it impact our community? Who is involved? How does it help? Members of the Ad Hoc Committee on Building and Grounds Security will provide the essentials and respond to your questions and concerns. If you can’t make this gathering, a second opportunity will be coming up Sunday, February 7 at 12:00 noon.
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85681669826?pwd=NHdiMHhrSitpbjN3aHpYTzF1WGtrZz09
Meeting ID: 856 8166 9826
Passcode: 253
This gathering will be on Zoom Meeting. Please use the name you are known by when you log in.
19
Jan
Tea Time on Zoom
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84959104932?pwd=RzB5TlVuMUh1ak0xM0o1K25vajlGQT09
Meeting ID: 849 5910 4932
Password: 1000
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. join Joe Rettenmaier for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
19
Jan
Parent Drop-In
Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m.
Parenting and caring for children always presents challenges and it is even more complex as we live through these days of the pandemic. Come, take a break, and connect with other parents (or anyone raising/living with a child) from TUUC. Share strategies for coping, provide support to one another, and sometimes, just have a good laugh. This is an informal group with no agenda other than to be here for each other. The room is open from 7:00 until 8:00. Busy lives mean you can’t always be there right at the start and that is okay. Pop in late if that is what works for you.
Join us at: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88074707279?pwd=US9tWlF1cnp5d0FzcFY0Y08rNmQxZz09
21
Jan
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
22
Jan
01/22/2021
8:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Are you yearning for spiritual connection in light of all the events in the current life of our beloved nation? Join our Sabbatical Minister, Joe Rettenmaier, for a soothing, spiritual vespers. This casual, family-friendly service welcomes you as you are — with gentle guided meditations, peaceful music, safe reflective space, poetry, prose, and more in one healing community Zoomscape. All ages are welcome.
Dream Vespers
8:00 p.m. Pacific
Fridays:
January 15, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 22, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 29, 2021 8:00 p.m.
Join Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84187997297?pwd=VzkwQ2hpclJOUVBrd2s0REErdWhmUT09
Meeting ID: 841 8799 7297
Passcode: 253
This gathering will be held via Zoom meeting, and participants will be able to see each other. To keep focus on our vespers reflections, we will not be using written chat during this gathering.
24
Jan
Join Nancy Slocum, Director of Religious Exploration for Children and Youth for a “Kids' Chapel” via Zoom on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. This program is geared for elementary school-aged children and will provide a little time to connect and share with each other. We will still have a Time for All Ages during our online worship service which starts at 10:30 a.m., and encourage children to participate in the worship service through that point.
If you are a parent of a child or children in our Religious Exploration program and have not received the login information, please email Nancy at dir.re@tahomauu.com and she will send you the info.
26
Jan
Tea Time on Zoom
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84959104932?pwd=RzB5TlVuMUh1ak0xM0o1K25vajlGQT09
Meeting ID: 849 5910 4932
Password: 1000
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. join Joe Rettenmaier for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
28
Jan
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
29
Jan
01/29/2021
8:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Are you yearning for spiritual connection in light of all the events in the current life of our beloved nation? Join our Sabbatical Minister, Joe Rettenmaier, for a soothing, spiritual vespers. This casual, family-friendly service welcomes you as you are — with gentle guided meditations, peaceful music, safe reflective space, poetry, prose, and more in one healing community Zoomscape. All ages are welcome.
Dream Vespers
8:00 p.m. Pacific
Fridays:
January 15, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 22, 2021 8:00 p.m.
January 29, 2021 8:00 p.m.
Join Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84187997297?pwd=VzkwQ2hpclJOUVBrd2s0REErdWhmUT09
Meeting ID: 841 8799 7297
Passcode: 253
This gathering will be held via Zoom meeting, and participants will be able to see each other. To keep focus on our vespers reflections, we will not be using written chat during this gathering.
31
Jan
Join Nancy Slocum, Director of Religious Exploration for Children and Youth for a “Kids' Chapel” via Zoom on Sundays at 11:30 a.m. This program is geared for elementary school-aged children and will provide a little time to connect and share with each other. We will still have a Time for All Ages during our online worship service which starts at 10:30 a.m., and encourage children to participate in the worship service through that point.
If you are a parent of a child or children in our Religious Exploration program and have not received the login information, please email Nancy at dir.re@tahomauu.com and she will send you the info.
01
Feb
This meeting is open to anyone within the TUUC community who wants to be a part of creating our Religious Exploration Program for children and youth.
For more information, contact TUUC Director of Religious Exploration for Children & Youth, Nancy Slocum at Dir.RE@TahomaUU.com
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89788159290?pwd=a0NHQUZJV0t2SHJYOTUyMzB5OUpaZz09
Meeting ID: 897 8815 9290
Passcode: 253
02
Feb
Tea Time on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Tuesday at 10:00 a.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84959104932?pwd=RzB5TlVuMUh1ak0xM0o1K25vajlGQT09
Meeting ID: 849 5910 4932
Password: 1000
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Tuesday at 10:00 a.m. Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.
04
Feb
Tea Times on Zoom with Rev. Linda
Thursday at 3:00 p.m.
Zoom Meeting:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81277790470?pwd=Z0svZDBaclVkWkZDWk1wVjZOUkJiZz09
Meeting ID: 812 7779 0470
Password: 1500
Or by phone: 253 215 8782
On Thursday at 3:00 p.m., Rev. Linda will be on Zoom with a cup of tea and available for conversation and checking in. Any and everyone is welcome to come along for casual conversation. She'll have a question of the day (for example, "Where did you find joy in the last week?"), but any and everyone can check in and chat as they are most comfortable.
Participants are encouraged to arrive a few minutes before the meeting start time, so attendees can be invited into the Zoom room. Once the gathering circle has been created for tea time, the Zoom “door” will be closed, and late attendees will not be able to enter. Your timely login allows us the opportunity to create a space for interested participants, and publicly offer this invitation, as well as alleviate concerns about potential mischievous Zoombombers.

